I know what it is like to lose all your worldly possessions. We are fortunate to have each other and a healthy son.
I learned of a family who is auctioning off everything they own on eBay in order to pay medical expenses for their two special needs children. One of their children was just diagnosed with moderate/severe autism and is nonverbal. Having worked with young children with autism, I know how very important early intervention is... and how expensive it can be.
If you are able, and it is something you are interested in, donations can be made to the family at everythingweown.org.